
MADE FOR MARRIAGE – Courtesy Benny Ho
Ruth 3: 1 – 18
One day Ruth’s mother-in-law Naomi said to her, “My daughter, I must find a home for you, where you will be well provided for. 2 Now Boaz, with whose women you have worked, is a relative of ours. Tonight he will be winnowing barley on the threshing floor. 3 Wash, put on perfume, and get dressed in your best clothes. Then go down to the threshing floor, but don’t let him know you are there until he has finished eating and drinking. 4 When he lies down, note the place where he is lying. Then go and uncover his feet and lie down. He will tell you what to do.”
5 “I will do whatever you say,” Ruth answered. 6 So she went down to the threshing floor and did everything her mother-in-law told her to do.
7 When Boaz had finished eating and drinking and was in good spirits, he went over to lie down at the far end of the grain pile. Ruth approached quietly, uncovered his feet and lay down. 8 In the middle of the night something startled the man; he turned—and there was a woman lying at his feet!
9 “Who are you?” he asked.
“I am your servant Ruth,” she said. “Spread the corner of your garment over me, since you are a guardian-redeemer of our family.”
10 “The Lord bless you, my daughter,” he replied. “This kindness is greater than that which you showed earlier: You have not run after the younger men, whether rich or poor. 11 And now, my daughter, don’t be afraid. I will do for you all you ask. All the people of my town know that you are a woman of noble character. 12 Although it is true that I am a guardian-redeemer of our family, there is another who is more closely related than I. 13 Stay here for the night, and in the morning if he wants to do his duty as your guardian-redeemer, good; let him redeem you. But if he is not willing, as surely as the Lord lives I will do it. Lie here until morning.”
14 So she lay at his feet until morning, but got up before anyone could be recognized; and he said, “No one must know that a woman came to the threshing floor.”
15 He also said, “Bring me the shawl you are wearing and hold it out.” When she did so, he poured into it six measures of barley and placed the bundle on her. Then he went back to town.
16 When Ruth came to her mother-in-law, Naomi asked, “How did it go, my daughter?”
Then she told her everything Boaz had done for her 17 and added, “He gave me these six measures of barley, saying, ‘Don’t go back to your mother-in-law empty-handed.’”
18 Then Naomi said, “Wait, my daughter, until you find out what happens. For the man will not rest until the matter is settled today.”
We encounter various rich cultures of marriage rituals. Some carve their feelings in a wooden spoon, some break glass during a marriage ceremony to portray the unbreakable bond of marriage, etc.
Now the role of a Kinsman redeemer is not only to redeem the family out of poverty but also, redeem the property. Lev 25:25 -29
“‘If one of your fellow Israelite’s becomes poor and sells some of their property, their nearest relative is to come and redeem what they have sold…
Also the kinsman redeemer should be:
- Should be willing
- Should be able
In the book of Ruth, Boaz, her kinsman redeemer, is a picture of Jesus Christ,
Jesus Christ is both willing and able to redeem us.
Illustration:
An artist made a beautiful boat. He went out to enjoy this boat. In the process, he lost it into a waterfall. He was very upset because of it. After a few days, he saw his boat in a shop. He asked the shopkeeper for the boat. The shopkeeper said that he could have it if he paid the price for it. He bought the boat and it was owned by him for the second time.
He owned the boat twice.
First time, through creation and
Second, time through redemption.
Similarly, Jesus paid the price twice
He came for us as a kinsman redeemer and bought us (his creation) back.
One Day – Strategic day. vs 3:1 One day Ruth’s mother-in-law Naomi said to her, “My daughter, I must find a home for you, where you will be well provided for.
There are 2 aspects to this passage:
- Practical aspect: How to please our spouse
- Prophetical aspect: Christ and his church, spiritual aspect
Marriage was an issue of survival in those days.
Ruth represents law, Law was supposed to introduce us to Christ.
Gal 3: 23 -25 Before the coming of this faith, we were held in custody under the law, locked up until the faith that was to come would be revealed. 24 So the law was our guardian until Christ came that we might be justified by faith. 25 Now that this faith has come, we are no longer under a guardian.
Law is supposed to lead us to Christ. The moment law is introduced, sin is evidently seen. If we try to live by law, then, we are sure to break it, we are law breakers, therefore it proves that we are sinners. We feel guilty when we break the law. Law is given to awaken our hearts towards sin, therefore we need a saviour. Now we are under grace of this saviour.
Naomi came to Ruth and spoke to her. It was a moment of destiny. This would change the entire history. We as a church need to prepare just like the way Ruth Prepared herself to meet Boaz:
- Ruth prepared herself to meet Boaz vs 3
- Wash yourself, cleanse yourself
Consecrating ourselves both by blood and water
Blood of Jesus cleanses us from root sins and the word of God cleanses us from day to day sin of the world. We need cleansing from contamination of the sinful world.
Ephesians 5: 25 -27 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.
John 15: 3 you are already clean because of the word I have spoken to you.
- Read long passages of scripture –drench yourself in it, it’ll keep us clean, rather than sprinkling water over us (reading only one line for the whole day).
- John 6: 63 The Spirit gives life; the flesh counts for nothing. The words I have spoken to you—they are full of the Spirit and life.
- Ruth Anointed herself (put on perfume)
- Anointing that comes from the Holy Spirit. Wash yourself and get anointed by the Holy Spirit.
- Dress up and look good (righteousness of Christ)
Put on the righteousness of Christ. Phil 3:7 -9 7 But whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. 8 What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them garbage, that I may gain Christ 9 and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ—the righteousness that comes from God on the basis of faith.
We need to put off the old man and put on the new man.
Ezek 16:9 -12. 9 “‘I bathed you with water and washed the blood from you and put ointments on you. 10 I clothed you with an embroidered dress and put sandals of fine leather on you. I dressed you in fine linen and covered you with costly garments. 11 I adorned you with jewellery: I put bracelets on your arms and a necklace around your neck, 12 and I put a ring on your nose, earrings on your ears and a beautiful crown on your head.
What she just did was, prepared herself as a bride. Preparing herself to be the beautiful bride for the marriage supper. 1 cor 6: 11 1 And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.
I am washed
I am sanctified
I am justified
- Ruth placed herself under Naomi’s submission, vs. 5
She submitted and obeyed.
A lady wanted to go to China as a missionary, so she asked her leader about it. Her leader said that, since China is not in the list, she won’t be able to go to China. This lady submitted to the leader’s decision and waited patiently. In the meantime, she would pray for china, kept herself updated about the happenings of China. One fine day, the leader, sent her to china as a missionary. On asking the leader, he replied, “What else can we do with such a submissive attitude?”
That’s the kind of submission Christ expects us to have.
- Ruth positioned herself at the feet of Boaz
Vs. 8- Midnight: speaks about end times in the bible
Mathew 25: 6. 6 “At midnight the cry rang out: ‘Here’s the bridegroom! Come out to meet him!’
Where is the place of the church in end times? It needs to be at the feet of Jesus. Spend time at the feet of Jesus. Feet of Jesus is a place of redemption.
Spread the corner of your garment over me vs 9, refers to the Prayer shawl, like a tent, it means a little prayer tent, Tallit in Hebrew.
Number 15:37 -39. 37 The Lord said to Moses, 38 “Speak to the Israelite’s and say to them: ‘Throughout the generations to come you are to make tassels on the corners of your garments, with a blue cord on each tassel. 39 You will have these tassels to look at and so you will remember all the commands of the Lord, that you may obey them and not prostitute yourselves by chasing after the lusts of your own hearts and eyes.
Also, this garment is representative of wings that cover us.
Ezekiel 16:8 8 “‘Later I passed by, and when I looked at you and saw that you were old enough for love, I spread the corner of my garment over you and covered your naked body. I gave you my solemn oath and entered into a covenant with you, declares the Sovereign Lord, and you became mine.
Under the wings of God is a place of blessing. Malachi 4:2 But for you who revere my name, the sun of righteousness will rise with healing in its rays.
There’s healing under his wings.
There are many examples of touching this hem of Christ’s garment, Matt 9 – story of bleeding women trying to touch the hem of his garment, Matthew 14:36, People brought all their sick to him 36 and begged him to let the sick just touch the edge of his cloak, and all who touched it were healed.
Where can I find the hem of his garment? At the feet of Jesus in absolute surrender.
15 He also said, “Bring me the shawl you are wearing and hold it out.” When she did so, he poured into it six measures of barley and placed the bundle on her.
One day of our labour = 6 days of his favour. Spending time with the Lord increases our effectiveness. Out of the position of rest, making our life work because we are in love with Jesus.
Eph 3:20 20 Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us,
- Ruth prayerfully waited for Boaz
Naomi asked Ruth, (KJV) Who are you Ruth? Did it work? Deal was sealed when she saw the 6 measures of Barley. Seventh measure is Boaz himself. Seek the gift and the giver. God gave us Jesus himself. Seek God and you’ll live abundantly blessed. Ruth 3: 18. Then Naomi said, “Wait, my daughter, until you find out what happens. For the man will not rest until the matter is settled today.”
It is when we rest, our Boaz will work. Take it into the presence of God. Take it in prayer. Leave it with God. Be still.
Touch the prayer shawl.
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